This original graphic rich Guide to fairness in relationships is the basis of this website. Now, for the first time, this perennially useful but out of print guide is online here in its entirety.

Using the sidebar to navigate easily, try reading though it in sequence for an overview of this concept. Then use it and the rest of the site to expand your understanding and practical application. So, please proceed, with or without reading the full introduction.

Production Note: The Guide has been scanned and then reduced to this size for faster downloading and easier viewing on smaller screens. When originally printed in 1982, all illustrations, layout and color separations were laboriously hand done, without the help of computerized desktop publishing.